a first...

it seems the biggest of the three little people received a card today from the potato state resident. she sent her first "just cuz" card in his almost 14 years of life. wow! maybe our split has made her realize that believe it or not, she is actually his mom. go figure!

regardless of why she sent it, she should have. and maybe, just maybe, he'll end up with more than two loving parents (me and his dad of course) out of all this because she may decide to step up a bit. one can hope!

oh, and on a funnier note, i was just very un-pc. a friend commented that i was doing well by keeping up with my hair coloring appointments as we've both been known to go in and out of the mood and the money to do such things. i stated that "i have to or else i look trailer." we all know what "trailer" is, but it wasn't the most correct thing i've ever said. nonetheless, it isn't the worst either!